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Looking for quick, casual sex? Follow these ten tips:
  1. Try to look physically strong and athletic. Emphasize your physical prowess by casually mentioning your rigorous work-out routine or helping to rearrange her furniture. Remember that women much prefer a lean build to a bulky, muscle-bound physique. Also, work on your speaking voice. Women are attracted to a low, resonant voice with consistent pitch.

  2. Consider contact lenses or surgery to correct bad vision. Men in glasses are considered smarter and more sensitive, but women find them less physically appealing. Wear sunglasses - they're sexy, and will improve your looks if your eyes are deep set or too close together.

  3. Because women look for signs of prosperity, dress well whether at work, at a bar, or in the park. Your clothes should be of high quality, clean, and loose.

  4. Demonstrate your resources and your generosity by buying drinks, buying gifts, handing out large tips.

  5. Confidence in front of a group signals social success, so work the crowd. Draw favorable attention to yourself by perfecting some skill, like skiing, sleight of hand, or poker, and develop your sense of humor - women love funny guys. (If you're no good at telling jokes, learn to laugh at yourself.)

  6. Show interest and affection for children. Why do you think politicians kiss babies? Signal that you'll be an attentive father, and that you're generally a caring person.

  7. Make use of "subliminal touching," touching a person so unobtrusively that it's not noticed. Studies show that subliminal touching dramatically increases that person's sense of well-being and positive feelings toward you, the toucher. Keep it subtle, however; women hate being pawed by strangers.

  8. Act protective - insist on walking her to her car, lend her your jacket if the restaurant is cold, intervene if anyone starts hassling her.

  9. Women are attracted to ambition and industriousness. Drop hints about your many achievements. Confide your life goals.

  10. Women value dependability and trustworthiness, so keep your cool - moodiness suggests you can't handle stress. Kindness is a highly attractive trait.



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