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Looking for quick, casual sex? Follow these ten tips:
- Try to look physically strong and athletic. Emphasize your physical prowess by casually mentioning your rigorous work-out routine or helping to rearrange her furniture. Remember that women much prefer a lean build to a bulky, muscle-bound physique. Also, work on your speaking voice. Women are attracted to a low, resonant voice with consistent pitch.
- Consider contact lenses or surgery to correct bad vision. Men in glasses are considered smarter and more sensitive, but women find them less physically appealing. Wear sunglasses - they're sexy, and will improve your looks if your eyes are deep set or too close together.
- Because women look for signs of prosperity, dress well whether at work, at a bar, or in the park. Your clothes should be of high quality, clean, and loose.
- Demonstrate your resources and your generosity by buying drinks, buying gifts, handing out large tips.
- Confidence in front of a group signals social success, so work the crowd. Draw favorable attention to yourself by perfecting some skill, like skiing, sleight of hand, or poker, and develop your sense of humor - women love funny guys. (If you're no good at telling jokes, learn to laugh at yourself.)
- Show interest and affection for children. Why do you think politicians kiss babies? Signal that you'll be an attentive father, and that you're generally a caring person.
- Make use of "subliminal touching," touching a person so unobtrusively that it's not noticed. Studies show that subliminal touching dramatically increases that person's sense of well-being and positive feelings toward you, the toucher. Keep it subtle, however; women hate being pawed by strangers.
- Act protective - insist on walking her to her car, lend her your jacket if the restaurant is cold, intervene if anyone starts hassling her.
- Women are attracted to ambition and industriousness. Drop hints about your many achievements. Confide your life goals.
- Women value dependability and trustworthiness, so keep your cool - moodiness suggests you can't handle stress. Kindness is a highly attractive trait.
- Men are attracted by signs of fecundity, so aim to look youthful and bursting with health.
- Tastes differ, but most men have a preference for women who are busty, tall, with long, usually blonde, hair.
- Signal your availability by wearing tight clothes that reveal a lot of skin. Move your body to afford him a good view of your figure.
- A man is eagerly looking for a sign that you're interested. Make suggestive gestures: suck seductively on a straw, lick your lips, stroke your own arms or legs.
- Make it easy for a man to start up a conversation. Wear an unusual piece of jewelry; drive a crazy car; carry a controversial book.
- Look intently into his eyes, and let him catch you staring at him.
- Energy is attractive, so speak with animation and put a bounce in your step.
- Suggestive conversation drives men wild. If you're on an airplane, drop hints about your secret desire to join the Mile High Club. If you're at a party, confess with a glass of champagne in your hand that champagne always makes you misbehave.
- Radiate sprezzatura - act nonchalant and light-hearted.
- Men and women alike appreciate the quality of kindness.
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